Are you ever sad and discouraged? If you say no, I will pray for you so you can experience the feeling of discouragement and sadness. Isaiah 53:3 He was despised and rejected,a man of sorrows, acquainted with deepest grief. We turned our backs on Him and looked the other way. He was despised, and we did not care. (4) Yet it was our weaknesses He carried; it was our sorrows that weighed Him down. And we thought His troubles were a punishment from God, a punishment for His own sins! Jesus, is who this scripture is all about. If anyone ever faced sadness and sorrow it was Jesus but I don't believe our Lord ever was discouraged even for a second. Probably the closest He ever came to discouragement was when he had to speak such words as “Oh ye of little faith” and “Get thee behind me Satan” to people He loved and cared for so much, But He Knows what it is like because He carries all of our discouragements, sadness, sorrows and weaknesses.
In John 11 we look at the death and restoring of life to one of Jesus's closest friends, Lazarus. Jesus expressed feelings of hurt, sadness and sorrow all through this time because His closest followers would not believe Him. Mary and Martha were discouraged and angry at Jesus blaming Him for their brothers death. They knew Jesus could have healed Lazarus if only He would have been there. But Gods plans are not mans plans. God had bigger plans for Lazarus than a simple healing. God was going to bring him back from the dead. The sadness, anger and sorrow were soon going to be replaced by shouts of praise, worship and adoration going up to heaven for the joy of the reanimation of that dead body lying in that tomb. Lazarus was alive, Mary and Martha were happy, everyone was amazed. But why did it have to take a man dying and brought back to life again to make them happy? Because we are all human beings and we all would have looked at the situation the same way. God doesn't always tell us His plan, but we have to go through the discouragement and sadness of certain situations to get to the place of knowing Gods plan and watching Him receive all of the glory for even greater things done than we could imagine.
So why are we sad and discouraged? We allow circumstances to overcome our lives so much,we allow them to be our gods, our idols. We know everything is going to be alright because all things work together for the good for those who love God and who are called according to His purpose(Romans 8:28). But this verse gets overshadowed when grief, sorrow and heartache overcome our lives. (1Thessalonians 5:18) Be thankful in all circumstances, for this is God's will for you who belong to Christ Jesus. (1Corinthians 10:13) The temptations in your life are no different from what others experience. And God is faithful. He will not allow the temptation to be more than you can stand. When you are tempted, He will show you a way out so that you can endure. Do you see these words? These are not just mere words. They are Gods words. (Jeremiah 27:11) I, the LORD, have spoken!'" When God speaks we should listen. If you are going through something in your life that seems so hard that you think you will never make it, take heart in these verses of scripture and praise God that He counts you worthy to go through what it is you are going through. If whatever it is saddens, angers, depresses, discourages or weakens you, take delight in knowing God trusts you to get through whatever it is with Him by your side. (James 1:2) Dear brothers and sisters, when troubles come your way, consider it an opportunity for great joy. (3) For you know that when your faith is tested, your endurance has a chance to grow. (4) So let it grow, for when your endurance is fully developed, you will be perfect and complete, needing nothing.
We never have to give in to our feelings. We do simply because it is the natural thing to do. (Psalm 43:2) For You are God, my only safe haven. Why have You tossed me aside? Why must I wander around in grief, oppressed by my enemies? The Psalmist felt he had been cast aside, that the only thing left to do was to wander aimlessly in sorrow and discouragement. But thank God for Joshua 1:9 This is My command, be strong and courageous! Do not be afraid or discouraged. For the LORD your God is with you wherever you go." God is with you, He will never cast you aside. No matter what, His word even says He is married to the backslider (Jeremiah 3:14), He is always on your side and at your side. We need to put the second half of Psalm 43:5 to work in our lives more than the first half. I will put my hope in God! I will praise Him again,my Savior and my God! Don't let your troubles be your god. Allow GOD to Be GOD and He will show Himself strong on your behalf.